SujiYeyo

It's our ten years wedding anniversary, and I'm thinking to share some tips how to have a happy and successful marriage life.  Although our couple is not perfect too, we also fight sometimes and I know ten years is not that long but I have some tips anyways. 1.  COMMUNICATION - I know, you know! that the number one key to have a successful marriage is to have a communication, aside from love but sometimes we forget about it.  The very first year of our marriage, when I am upset or angry for something I never speak, I am just quiet.  My husband don't know why I'm upset and he will ask me, but I never open my mouth, me too I don't know why I'm like that.  I expect him to know why I am upset, which is totally wrong.  How will you know how he/she feel if you're not saying what's your problem right?.  As time goes by I realized that I was wrong and I try to practice how to say, why I am upset or angry for something.  I explain it without shouting. luckily my